First, let us acknowledge how hard it is to forgive sometimes, and then I’ll explain why it’s hard. Once you understand the why, you’ll be able to approach it in a most profound way, and you’ll find the healing power of forgiveness in your heart.
Logic vs Emotion. Emotion is always stronger than logic. The logical mind might be telling you, “it’s the right thing to do,” or “I should forgive them because they apologized,” or “I need to because it’s only hurting me.”
While it sounds right and logical, forgiveness is not logic. You cannot find forgiveness by following your logical mind. So, the question is, “How do you forgive someone who hurt you? How do I forgive?” Here is the answer.
Whatever happened, you were hurt. You were wronged and you are still in pain. True forgiveness is not about “forgive but never forget” or “forgiving the unforgivable.” It is about letting the internal hurt and pain melt away by healing them. If you are struggling with anger and forgiveness, I’ll help you release the anger so you’ll meet forgiveness in your heart. If you need to forgive yourself but don’t know how, I’ll show you self-love and compassion. Try to jump into forgiveness without processing the pain is like, trying to ignore the emotions. Your emotions matter. Your feelings are important. Give them a chance to speak. Let’s take care of the wound. Let’s acknowledge that you are in pain and then you can gracefully release it.
As you heal the unexpressed hurt, forgiveness will meet you. When you process the hurt feelings under deep healing hypnosis, it is extremely powerful because you’ll be making a phenomenal internal shift. And this internal shift will change the way you feel and, therefore, you’ll be free from the hurtful emotions.
I will guide you and hold you in my healing space as you process it. You’ll be safe to explore and express the emotions, and more importantly release them for good. When you feel, you are healing. Experience the healing power of forgiveness.
As you read my words here, you are ready to let go and heal. I will show you how you can release the pain and hurt step by step. Here is a gift for you, a token for the “Insight & Inspiration” session ($80 value). This is where you start feeling the great possibility of finding the power of forgiveness. I look forward to seeing you smile your beautiful smile.
We do what we do because of the programs. Logic vs Emotion: Emotions is always stronger, and here is the reason. 95% of the time, it’s our program that is dictating how we react, behave, and feel. Up until 7 years old, most of the time the brain is in Theta mode which is a state of programming and hypnosis. This means that what we saw, heard, and perceived went straight to the subconscious and, therefore, our perceptions became our program by “natural” hypnosis.
After 12 years old, the brain enters Beta mode which is a state of focus, alert, and awareness. When the brain is in Beta, the conscious mind blocks the gate to the subconscious, and the programs we accepted long ago (beliefs and paradigms) are now locked in and dominate our behaviors and emotions. Consequently, if we have positive beliefs, we have positive perceptions to our experiences. But if negative, then our perceptions are also negative, which leads us to negative behaviors and emotions.
Under a deep healing hypnosis, you’ll be totally relaxed and comfortable. In this hypnotic state, your conscious mind drifts away and opens the gate to the subconscious where all the programs are kept. Now, you’re able to access the programs (the root cause of the issue) and then change them in a way they serve you well. We often call this process “reprogramming” or “rewiring.” Once you do this under hypnosis, you’ll feel a big difference. You’ll experience the transformational internal shift, and this is the power of hypnosis.
Yes, most definitely. Hypnosis is a totally relaxed state and you remain awake. In fact, you get in hypnotic state everyday. Hypnosis is a safe, natural, alternative, and holistic approach to resolving issues. At HEAL & HEALED, you’ll have a thorough Intake period where you tell me exactly what you’d like to release, gain, believe, and achieve. You decide what beliefs you’d like to believe. During hypnosis, you are in absolute control. So, experience the power of hypnosis and change your life in a way you desire!